Greetings, all. I just saw this great article, The Argument-Free Marriage. It links to the above video with Fawn Weaver.
What she is saying is very similar to what we do with NVC, but in NVC we would say, first connect with your own feelings and needs, then connect with the other person's and only then express your feelings and needs.
If you connect with the other person's feelings and needs, they are much more likely to be open to yours. This works in all different kinds of relationships, not just marriages.
Anyway, this is a great video. Enjoy!
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